Hi Leanne
i had a left mastectomy five years ago and due to a persistent seroma, had a soft pad for nearly 12 months, so I know how you feel. Perpetual adjustment is a thorough pain. A proper prosthesis, shape, weight and touch much closer to the real thing, made all the difference and I have neither looked back nor felt the need for a reconstruction. My prosthesis cost $400, most refundable and needs replacement about every two years. I had no need to change any of my clothes - I didn't wear plunging necklines but my surgeon kindly left me with just enough for a hint of cleavage! I am fine for beach or pools, have stripped off in shared change rooms, although it took a little time to get fully comfortable naked. Best wishes.