Thank you @Julez1958 . Your story is almost identical to mine so your input is invaluable. Even down to when GP told me. My hubby was shaking but I was still like a statue just staring at her and I felt like the desk got wider.
I think once I have my scans on Thursday I will feel better as then I know more what we are dealing with and hopefully be able to rule out any other issues. I feel like I have worked through the stress for today so thank you everyone for your support. I need to allow the process to happen and release controlling something that is not in my control at all. For now I'm spring cleaning the 🏠. That I can manage