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Second time around
I had breast cancer eight years ago, had lumpectomy, radiation and five years meds. After mammogram in August they discovered dcis in other breast, after operation to remove they found small invasive ...
Having a mastectomy is a very personal decision it impacts your self-esteem and it can impact your relationship. I had a mastectomy 13 years ago and I don't regret it for a minute my husband has been wonderful but it really needs to be a joint decision . I made the decision to have an implant because it was a less invasive by surgery has worked well for me. One thing it does do is remove the stress that will come back in the breast. I would suggest that you and husband talk to a cancer council councillor to talk through the realities of intimacy with a reconstruction. It has been no issue for my relationship but I know it is for others. Don't be afraid just be informed. You will make the decision that is right for you. Take care