I’m new here! I was diagnosed in late November and went ahead with a double mastectomy just before Christmas. An overwhelming experience! There was no option at the time for immediate reconstruction ...
So sorry to see you join our exclusive little group, @joey66 ..... I hope you've recovered OK from your surgery.
We have 2 private groups that I'd suggest you join - where you can discuss both options (staying flat or getting reconstruction) in TOTAL privacy! There are also photos that you should be able to look at, possibly as 'before & after' pics.