Post surgery

Well I'm now flat chested and home. No pain and able to transfer on and off bed chair and toilet. Such a relief. Now the wait for the biopsy. Only one node removed which I hope is a good sign. I see my wonderful surgeon next Wednesday after which chemo will be worked out. I'm hormone negative so waiting to see if I'm HER negative. It's frightening and the waiting is hard. I was excited yesterday to be home after one night in hospital but the dark thoughts keep coming into my head 

Having both off tomorrow my breasts are fibrous and the mammogram done after the diagnosis didn't show the cancer at all! Self examination is the way to go. Then chemo. Apparently the risks for me are too high as mammograms on the other one wouldn't detect anything anyway. It's also hormone negative so worse in some ways but having already done menopause I'm glad not to have to take the hormone blocking drugs.  May even go back on HRT as my bone density is critical 

I've been told I have to wear a post surgery bra day and night for weeks 

All good advice @June1952! I remember just lifting the kettle to pour a cuppa was abit of a challenge that first week.Button down the front pjs and shirts are a good option for the first few weeks. A stretchy singlet or cami works until you can get into a bra(that’s if you want to)
If you want to get fitted for prosthesis x2 then wait till 4-6wks when your chest has ‘settled down’.This is covered by Medicare.

Hello @Marycipk - I agree with @TonyaM (above) that going for the double is the best decision - like her, I am wanting number 2 removed as the lopsided issue can be a nuisance.
Before surgery, make sure you have as much as possible at a height where you don't need to lift your arms or stretch too far.  Things like your coffee/tea making supplies, cooking, clothes etc.  If you have a clothes airer this is better than stretching for a clothes line - but you probably have most of this in place all the time anyway.  Just think about minimizing the need to have a pull on the stitches.  There is little pain really and the hospital will provide medications - don't be a martyr, take them when needs be.
Sort out easy to wear clothing and pillows for comfort.  Take any assistance offered to you !
You will be provided with gentle stretching exercises to minimize issues so make sure you keep up with them.
Take care, all the best and we will hear from you when you are home again.  💖

Hi @Marycipk,
My first bc surgery was 19 yrs ago and I had a lumpectomy and full node clearance (17 nodes). That’s the difficult bit to recover from- the underarm cut. I could barely lift my arm and needed a lot of physio. It’ll be different if you only have one or two nodes taken. So 12 yrs ago I had a mastectomy(same breast) and my arm movements were fine.You’ll probably have a numbness and tight sensation across your chest but you’ll recover in about 2 to 3 weeks with pain only for 3 days or so. Don’t be alarmed if you develop a seroma which is a colllection of fluid near the op site. I had one that needed syringing off for a few weeks. I actually think you are doing the right thing having a double. I’m sick of the lopsided thing and am thinking of removing my remaining breast.Best wishes and hugs.xx

I can’t comment about bilateral
mastectomies, I only had one. But as @arpie says, there was remarkably little pain or discomfort. Arm mobility depends to a large extent on the removal of lymph nodes - digging about the axilla can upset nerves, cause discomfort and, often, temporary loss of sensation. But even then, it varies. I had 17 lymph nodes removed and had normal arm movement within 48 hours. Couldn’t tell cold from hot in my armpit for months though! Exercises will be recommended and are really worth doing. However the issues are different if you are having immediate reconstruction. I had none so others are better placed to advise in that case. Very best wishes for your surgery. 

So sorry to see you here @Marycipk, joining our exclusive little club - I had a lumpectomy, so can't really comment on the mastectomy side of things - so I wish you all the best. 

I have read that members with mastectomies have had less pain and discomfort than they had imagined it to be, so hope that is true for you too xx. As with any surgery - take it easy afterwards & all should be good xx

take care and all the best xx