Thank you so much for replying your help is greatly appreciated. I've jumped into private as I didn't hear anything from public marked as urgent. I do have private cover and the Dr is listed so I sooooo hope all will be okay as we are definitely not financial to cover any surprised.
Yep Dr Google is definitely better than it used to be, and yes I'm swamped, but open minded.
I haven't received the Contract for the new job jet so I hope I will be okay im waitng until then (which will probably correspond with surgery date) before I say anything.
I was freaking earlier and now I so appreciate the peeps like yourself xo