Only joined this site today...

Sister how is your sister today? In what year was her surgery? My sons were 3 and 5 when I had my operation. I was not told before my initial operation that there was a chance that the lump could be malignant, because psychologist said it was so rare for a woman to have breast cancer under the age of 30 that it was best not to upset all those young women.
i'm glad there are networks such as this today, to help people come to terms with that is and has happened.