Only 2 years in and going for 2nd side mastectomy.

Hi @Sketa.  I assume you are talking about a prophylactic mastectomy because of the scoliosis?  I had a left mastectomy 18 months ago, and am now contemplating having the right one off too, though for rather different reasons.  There is a private group on this site called Flat Chat, and I suggest you ask to join it.  There, in private, you can share the views of others on the topic.  You are not alone.