Hi @JoB
Sorry you had to join the forum but as was said before it is invaluable. I am form the UK as well so am in the same boat as you every one is still back there. But it sounds like you have a good support network which is good. Its a tough journey but you will get there in the end. We are planning a trip back next year for parents Golden wedding, Fathers 70th and my 50th. What part of the UK are you from we are from Somerset (where the cider apples grow!!!)
It all seems a bit surreal at the start but all the appointments and hospital visits become second nature after a while and i know it sounds stupid but when you reach the end you kind of miss it ( that's where i am now Crazy!!!!)
Take care and best whishes
:)