@LDP most people tend to think anybody can use the ONJ Wellness Centre, but that isn't the case. I had some treatment there, but changed to a closer hospital to me because I found the Centre to be so busy and buzzers going off all the time, and roaming musicians singing in peoples faces whilst having chemo in the chemo room. Have you visited the Wellness Centre? I was shocked at the lack of calmness, and outpatients had buzzers handed to them, so I would hear buzzers going off all the time when it was their time to be seen by the medical team. Granted they have 2 breast care nurses, but they are so stressed, and I would often see them with an outpatient that looked very ill indeed, I would have felt I was taking the time away from a patient in more need than me.
I wonder if you could find a smaller public hospital a bit further away that would allow the breast care nurse to contact you. Message me if you want to know where I went and I could not fault the care I had there. Take care, and it can be a maze trying to get the care you need/want, but I wouldn't say that the public system is superior to the private system, they are just so different.