Hi Outra Its tough to be in this space. I was in the same boat with early bc. When told at meeting with bc doctor what would be proposed I sat there like a stunned mullet cos the language they spoke was so foreign They said each step then handed me info then said they will handle all the referral process and I waited. Then came surgeon appt with suggested treatment Within the space of visits I thought how am I going to handle this. I ordered my kit, Looked at info I was given and found out as much as possible that my head could cope with Many discussions with my support network but ultimately took it one step at a time Chose some treatment as recommended but not others. I am comfortable with all these decisions I had lumpectomy which gave greater pucture of what I was dealing with in Grade Stage if it was hormone + and also if nodes were involved. So then I could have a greater sense of choices available PM me and I can give you more info It is a tough decision and there is lots of support and wisdom and experience on this site Take Care