Thank you everyone for you comments and support.
My son actually opened up too me the other night and told me what is actually going on in his life and mind. I felt privileged that he opened up too me and know have more of a understanding of what is going on in his head.
I did ask him how he felt about my cancer and he basically said " it is what it is" and we left it at that.
My sister who also went through breast cancer four years ago, basically had the same non support from not only her husband but her three sons.
As she explained, my son lost his father and now he is probably scared that he is going too loose me. I have great support from my family and friends and you ladies on here.
Oh yes he did do the stuff that I asked him too do before he flew out.
Now just too get through the next two weeks before I start chemo..
xxxx