Thanks Ladies have seen Surgeon twice very quickly as he squeezed me in he is away for 2 weeks have not seen a breast care nurse Surgeon never mention this sent me for lots of blood tests and scans breast MRI CT bone scan and gene test as my younger sister and my mum both having Breast cancer in the last two years also sent me to reconstruction surgeon who is going away next week for 5 weeks he has put me on Tamoxifen my family are over seas and I am traveling to see them Christmas which was booked before this all happened Surgeon said I could still go and have op first week feb I was so shocked and so was my husband we did not ask many questions not sure what stage I know I have 4 lumps in right breast and 2 in left and there slow growing my sisters have told me what to do and ask the surgeon when I see him again on 13 Dec and have just got my journey kit should get gene test back next week . Thankyou for all your kind words I was unsure of going over seas but think it would be good for me to see and talk with my family they will help look after the kids and I can rest before I come back for big op kids will be back at school so hopefully it wont be to hard on them xx