Thank you @onemargie, I just moved from the North side of Brissy to here about 1 month ago and found this lump 1 week later. I actually have 3 children but 2 do not want anything to do with me even after letting them know about my diagnosis. My 3rd child still lives at home and in grade 11. So yes so use to doing things solo that it's just a way of life. Have pre admission on tues but that is nothing. My parents are here on the coast so they help when I ask without a problem, but I do have a problem with asking. Thank you for all you kind words. x