Thank you both so much for all of that information and kind words. I am in Sandringham, Victoria.
I am so glad it is out - currently doing x2 Egg freeze cycles before I start chemo. Also have genetics involved now as the conversation after chemo is radiation vs mastectomy. I am feeling semi better since there is somewhat a plan - but all the appointments are exhausting. And I have amazing support around me, but sometimes that in itself is exhausting and I am already needing to learn when to pull back, say no and concentrate on just myself. Thank you again - you give me confidence to be able to get through this.