Hey Padley! Sorry to hear of you and your sons plight, but love your approach which is wonderful. I absolutely agree by the way, it has nothing to do with lifestyle choices...so its about what feels right and good for you. I don't deny myself anything, I eat very well and healthy, but if I want cake, I have it or a glass of a wine, not that I have much anymore...but it certainly isnt the reason I got Breast Cancer and stopping all of these things won't prevent it either. So wonderful to hear of your journey as you begin...keep your eye on that finish line!!! You so have got it! :smiley: Melinda xo