Hi @Padley and welcome to the network. So sorry about your sons diagnosis and you own, but you certainly sound like the type of lady who is going to look for the good and make the most of any situation. Please know that we are here for you, doesn't matter what it's about. You might like to talk a lot, and we all like to read a lot and respond - Perfect!!! I also like the idea of your business class air travel back to the UK - very nice! And I personally am not settling for a 5-10 year time frame. I'm going for gold and aiming for 35 years at a minimum :smiley: All the best. Let us know how you are going. Xx Cath