Hi Vonniejoy, welcome to this forum full of support and knowledge from these lovely people.
I myself have only been here since November last year, it’s not where any of us wanted to be.
Telling people is hard and we all deal with this differently, we told our children together and did a lot of crying, I used messenger to let family and friends know as I was unble to speak without bursting into tears. All calls went through my husband as I wasn’t up to dealing with anything.
We are all here for you and each other, any questions just ask away, and you will get responses.
Take Care of yourself, waiting is the hardest , we seem to do a lot of that, waiting for appointments, test results, treatments, Be kind to yourself, deep breaths, one day at a time.
I enrolled myself into a meditation and mindfulness course to help me with anxiety which I found to be a great benefit especially when waiting for results.
Deeps breaths
Sending big hugs your way ❤️