Hi Jen,
If you've coped with the first chemo you are off to a great start. Shit almost invariably happens to some degree, but if you have had no major reaction to the drugs, dealing with the 'product in, product out' equation--which seems to be the main housekeeping issue-- will work itself out.
Forums vary, people come and go. There are occasional rants which are usually are coloured with a fair bit of humour and the overwhelming majority of posts are people asking 'has anyone else...'
Good luck. Marg