Thank you everyone :) it's nice to hear there are nice forums out there :) Socoda I will check out shimmers post about telling kids :( and also the young women's page.
im still learning to navigate myself around the page so that you for the suggestions.
And Kath i guess it's never easy :( my own mum was diagnosed with ovarian when o was 9 years old and passed away when I was 15. It's something I experienced first hand and has really shaped me into who I am today. I try and think positively about it but it was tough and I'm scared I'm going to put my own daughter through the same :( but again that's what we all fear :( I look forward to getting to know you guys xx