Hi Tania
Snap, my name is Tanya and I too was diagnosed when I was 36 and my children were 2 and 4. I am sitting here in the car park of the hospital where I had my chemo typing this to you from my phone 5 years later and I am happy, well and living life. I am just here for a visit to say hi to other people going through chemo and pinch some cookies and some love.
Anyway, enough about me, sweets you must be beside yourself with worry, it feels like something that happens to other people and feels like a bad dream:( stage 1 is a plus (if there are any plus's to this crap), there are so many things going through your head and it will all seem like a blur until you have a plan.
Anyway, if you would like a chat, I will PM you my mobile number, I feel there are many similarities between us and I am happy to share my stuff with you. Xx