Welcome @LisaJHM
Some great advice already from everyone as usual.
There is nothing that prepares you for that earthshattering diagnosis. The fear that surfaces at the start is indescribable and nobody can truly understand unless they have felt it. I remember each morning waking up hoping it had all been a horrible dream, unfortunately not.
Waiting, waiting , waiting for scans, waiting for results, waiting for doctors that run late all the time. Frustrating, annoying and frightening...absolutely. Too much time to think.
I think one of the worst parts at the beginning was feeling like you have no control. Don't be scared to ask questions and don't be scared to say so if you don't like something and tell them if you don't quite understand. This is your gig.
I did surgery first then the chemo and rads. After the diagonsis I found the first oncology appointment to be the most daunting, scared the bejeesus out of me actually.
Just remember, they will give you a list a mile long of possible side effects. Doesn't mean you will get them. Some of us get through without too many problems.
Are you able to access a cold cap for your hair where you are going?
I always recommed to take photos of all the good things you do amongst navigating treatment. That way when you look back that part of your life is not all about the cancer and treatment.
In the meantime, keep yourself busy, distraction can work wonders.
You got this lovely. Hugs.
xoxoxox
