Hi Carolyn12 , I just wanted to jump in here as sometimes older discussions can take time to receive a reply - i'm sorry to hear about your recent diagnosis. Finding out around Christmas is so overwhelming, hopefully you have been able to take things one day at a time together with your girls and be gentle with yourself. Please reach out to us on the Helpline at 1800 500 258 if you feel like having a chat, and you might find that the Newly Diagnosed discussion category is helpful for you. Sending you strength as you navigate this 🩷