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New to this and a bit lost
Hello, I am a 44 year old woman, wife & mum who was told last night over a phone call that I have a grade 2 ductal cancer that is Estrogen sensitive. I need to make an appointment for either this week...
Hi, I feel like I’m in your shoes. I just found out in December 29. I was wondering how you’re going? I’m still in shock. I’m 44 years old and I have Teenage Girls 🩷🩷🩷.
Hi Carolyn12
it is always such a shock to hear the 'you have cancer' news. .
Have you been advised what type of surgery you will require? If it's not a lumpectomy, I recommend you join the private 'recon' group here and also the 'flat' group. I had a double mastectomy in Nov 24.
You will have so much going through your mind at the moment so have a notebook with you and write down any questions that come to mind because when the time comes to ask your questions, you will likely forget.
All the best with your ongoing journey
Hi Carolyn12 , I just wanted to jump in here as sometimes older discussions can take time to receive a reply - i'm sorry to hear about your recent diagnosis. Finding out around Christmas is so overwhelming, hopefully you have been able to take things one day at a time together with your girls and be gentle with yourself. Please reach out to us on the Helpline at 1800 500 258 if you feel like having a chat, and you might find that the Newly Diagnosed discussion category is helpful for you. Sending you strength as you navigate this 🩷
