I had invasive breast cancer just inside stage one...high grade. Her2+ and Es+. My mammogram was all clear 5 weeks prior myself finding a lump.
I have a family history of breast cancer but no gene linked to myself. I was a 14E breast which were dense.
I chose a bilateral mastectomy with tissue expander reconstruction. My nipple on the effected side was too close to save so I opted not to attempt to save. It was my surgeons suggestion for this surgery.
I do miss my breasts. I am happy with my decision...occasionally I fantasize about a diep reconstruction. ..but it's more about the tummy being removed than the need for better breasts...lol.
I had nipple reconstruction last year and have still to get a tattoo. I feel no rush to do this. Now I have a nipple my breasts look like breasts and I focus much less on them now than before..
If you join the reconstruction group there are photo stories of the various surgical options.