GavinCh
7 years agoMember
New To BCNA
Hello Everyone,
My name is Gavin and my wife (Karen) was recently advised
she had BC (March 9th), I’ve been a rock for her and our two kids at
home (we’re in our 50’s) and have advised my girls li...
I have booked a
couple of weeks leave to help around the house, I’m not going to stop Karen doing
what she need to ensure movement is made but to be their even if just to chat.
Really appreciate the suggestions and will assist in the preps for hospital.
In short Karen was
advised of three options and the one selected is a lumpectomy and any a
couple of nodes removed, Karen had once of the Breast Care WA team come
visit earlier in the week and was a huge help with Karen and her acceptance / understanding
of the road ahead, however it was a good chance to just sit and chat about
anything. Whilst this is such a horrid situation for Karen and you all, the
support, services and care we have seen and experienced is so wonderful and a
huge credit to everyone, including those helping me vent on these boards.
At this point Karen will only be staying overnight however
she did suffer a DVT a few years ago from a prior surgery (Foot) and the casts she
went through would have been the main factor but in saying this everyone knows
so might cause a second night stay for precautions.
iPad with charger Mine is old so great reason to replace it :)
Ear Plugs Can
provide as we have heaps at work (not sure Karen will use them tho lol)
A few magazines Great
Idea, I’ll get a couple of these for her.
Treats (biscuits/lollies) Yep a must, Karen love a bit of Chocolate now
and again :)
A Worm Open Top Yes,
I read this in one of her books
Don't forget to take any 'regular medications'
with you that Karen may be on as well. Let the nursing staff know what
she needs to take.
Thanks @Arpie I hadn’t even thought about that xx
Appreciate your comments as well @kitkatb, thank you
Cheers
Gavin