Hi all, well it has been a whirlwind 3 weeks since my last post..after talking to the plastic surgeon, i then needed to decide whether to have a bilateral mastectomy and reconstruction or just the mastectomy. Wow my brain almost exploded from thinking. I am very lucky to have a supportive husband and with lots of loving discussion I decided to have the bilateral and TRAM reconstruction. . My decision was vindicated when the pathology came back with early cancer on the right side too. So now I am 10 day post surgery still in pain but grateful it is done.