New diagnosis

Hi Tatjana So sorry to read about your diagnosis. I was diagnosed last September and am the same age as you with 2 children 6.5 and 11 (when I was diagnosed). I was fortunate to have a strong support network with great neighbours, grandparents etc. As soon as I was diagnosed we informed the kids school and they were a great support - as well as keeping a close eye on the kids for any changes in their behaviour. We told both kids as soon as I knew I had to have chemo. My 6 yo coped well but my 11 yo daughter found it more difficult. She has been working with a child Physcologist which has really helped her deal with her issues. Everyone is different but I think you need to be honest with your kids and give them the facts (in basic terms) and let them know that they can come to you with any questions or fears they have. My daughter still has separation anxiety which we are working through but this is getting better, especially since I went back to work. Good luck with your journey - I'm happy to have a chat - just send me a msg (I'm in sydney) xRita