Hey @loo it's a bit of a jump from a sore spot on your boob to the whole language of breast cancer. Our brains are pretty good at filtering and suppressing information and emotions--just as well, really, or half the population would be gibbering wrecks. Or maybe they are.
Anyway, all this shit takes time to sort through. So many unknowns, and while I don't want to sound like the voice of doom, the bloody goal posts can move about . Take your time when you can, trust your gut if it's screaming at you. Nod and smile when people make idiotic statements or suggestions. There are too many idiots to bite them all. Most of all, good luck. MXX