Hi @Kimw71, so much wonderful advice above. I have experienced the 'friend' thing. I was in shock as I have supported so many but I have not received that support back at all. I do have a couple of good friends and I have a great husband and son with his own family. Just stick to those ones that come on the ride with you. Enjoy what you want and don't be afraid to ask for help. It's so strange that people don't know how to deal with it. It seems simple to all of us - we just talk here to each other. I wish you the best care.