My Valentines Day Cancer

Hi @Sazbe. Things are moving along for you. Sooner the better I say . If you're stuck on a Candy Crush level it doesn't seem a waste of time while you're hanging around for scans etc. Backgammon is my saviour on the mobile. Lumps are strange things  I was told I had 2, had 2 hookwires on day of surgery to find there was only one lump shaped like a Dumbbell  grade 3 so had chemo. 2 weeks after surgery went back to work hairdressing until chemo started  I bought loads of wireless bras but none of them fitted as I have a bigger cup than you and none were that big so I squashed into the biggest I could find. At home I never wore one. My lump was at 12 o'clock and my scar about 9 o' clock. Yes I have a dented, smaller perkier fun bag. Now that I'm back to underwire bras again it's barely noticeable. My surgeon keeps offering to make the other one the same, and I said I need one unadulterated funbag for my Bad Boy.  He's never had a problem with the other one either and I'm blessed to have him make me feel totally comfortable about it. Too be honest  I don't care what it looks like because others have it far worse so who am I to grumble. All I wanted was the lump removed and do what you have to do. When I went for radiation I went braless  So much easier. Leggings and a volumous over shirt . At the end of rads I used to cover the broken skin with a pad if I had to wear the wireless bra. When I had a gig (in a band) I used to wear my performing bra. Very pretty and sexy, well padded on the sore bit and endure it for the night. It's something that clears up with time  I went to my lovely bra shop De'bra's and found a good underwire bra that fitted a little looser than normal and it was a godsend. The lady brought me a chicken fillet. It was bigger than what I needed as it's all they had but it was so heavy and felt eeeew I said I'd rather have a baggy bit of bra where my dent is, and there's nothing to see when dressed.. You might not have that bad a dent hopefully and might rethink having the other side done  Review it all when it's done and you're over the initial shock. Being able to work was the best medicine for me. So worked through chemo and rads. It certainly takes your mind off of it all. There will be hundreds more questions you'll want answered and there's lots of answers here. Best of luck with it all.