@kmakm., when I'm feeling the day has too much in it, when in fact it doesn't., I often think of you and your extended family and how you are being the heartbeat of it and if at times you feel it's all too much when in fact it isn't, you especially have to soldier on as you have many depending on you. I take a look at my life and know it's nowhere as hard as yours. So I give myself a smack in the head to wake me up to dealing with whatever and know someone has it mightier than me. As for this BCNA. It had been an absolute SAVIOUR.. It is invaluable for information and support from so many. Thanks to everyone who has helped me in big and little ways, known and unknown .