Welcome:)I am not a singer but I do love music!!I also have grandchildren,and in the beginning I had all those scary thoughts too.I am almost 12 months past chemo,and I feel great.Stay connected on here,because there is always someone who can answer your questions honestly,and no question is a silly one!As you go along,and get more information about your treatment,you will start to feel more confident.Breast cancer is very treatable these days,and we live in the country with the best medical support.Take care and stay in touch.Robyn xoxq