Lupus, CPTSD, Breast Cancer... Oh My!
Hi everyone thanks for having me here in the group. i have systemic lupus and have been living with it since i was 17 years old. i'm 35 now. I found out last week i have breast cancer from the doctor...
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Hi Liz,
I am so sorry you were put through all that stress with your diagnosis. To tell you over the phone that you have bc is brutal - it is hard enough with a caring GP who is present.
There is a great Triple Negative Group on the site, and we all understand what you are going through at the moment. We are nearly all Grade 3 when we are diagnosed because it is aggressive. You will find out your Stage (1, 2A, 2B, 3..) when your final pathology results come through. Be sure to order your My Journey kit from BCNA - it is invaluable. Also keep a diary from now - you will need it for appointments, questions to ask, info given, etc.
Being so fit is a huge plus. It really helps your reactions and recovery. I had it all - 2 x surgeries, chemo and radiation - 4 years ago and my fitness really helped me to get my life back on track afterwards. There is light at the end of the tunnel - just take things one day at a time, and don't look too far ahead or it can be overwhelming.
Friends can behave very strangely. We have all been surprised at some of the reactions we get. Your true friends will be there for you.
I am so sorry your mother has been through bc as well. Nowadays treatment is so much more advanced. Keep in touch when you get your results. We are here for you. Big hug. xx Michelle