You need someone to help you fathom all this out and quickly. A McGrath breast nurse would be good if there is one in your area. Can your partner or any family assist? Otherwise you need to talk to your oncologist or hospital about getting some help. Queensland offers assistance for travel and accommodation for specialist medical attention but you need to apply and applying at your hospital may be quickest. You still need advice on possible support - chemo and a young baby are not ideal, and you won't know how you react to chemo till you start. I know this is really hard but as everyone says, your options become more limited over time.