@Outra I feel for you. My hair was very important to me and I insisted on cold caps which only worked for some of the time. It must be very difficult having a young baby and coping with the initial stress of making decisions about treatment. I hope you have some supportive friends and family around you. The counsellors at the Cancer Council are wonderful.
It sounds like you’ve looked into options. Unfortunately with cancer treatment the options are all a bit difficult. My hair grew back, I had reconstructive surgery. There are options down the track. It really is important to start treatment soon. My aunty had delayed treatment due to a delayed diagnosis and I spent yesterday with my cousins and my uncle. It was our first Christmas without her. Please take care. xx