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FLClover
5 years agoMember
Hello @mg2 🙂.
Yes, you will come to terms with this whole bc thing, and you will feel normal again. Perhaps not like before, but life will resume again without you constantly thinking about it. How long that will take depends on you, the individual, and how much work you do on your mental and emotional self. That includes crying when you need to, being angry, scared, all those negative emotions, acknowledging them as was advised above as they are a part of us, and releasing them. You are in the initial stage of the bc ride so what you’re feeling is to be expected. I’m pretty sure we all felt like that at the beginning. I know I did. I was pretty petrified. Took a while for me to be able to say I had it without crying. Now, almost a year on, I feel completely different, confident and very happy. It wasn’t easy, I had to see 3 different psychologists for about 9 months, but it was worth it 👌🏻. Stay in touch, and post whenever you feel down or scared, or need advice on anything 🍀♥️.