Hi there @JenPritchard welcome to the forum. I was diagnosed may 2016 aged 43 with bc but mine was different to yours as mine was triple negative but I had grade 3 stage 2a. We have 2 kids but older than yours one 21 and one 19. It is always unexpected and takes us all by surprise. Rest assured it is doable and there will be plenty of others on here with young families who can give you all the advice you need and answer all your questions. You and your hubby will find the strength you need to get through it and kids are surprisingly adaptable and they will be the distraction you need and give you their unconditional love. My best advice for you is to Take it a day at a time, Try not to google anything, Get the advice from your team, but also listen to your gut too. Once you have a plan of attack you will feel better about things. It’s normal to feel frightened and anxious but don’t be afraid to ask us all questions thats what we are here for. And if friends or family offer to give you a hand with the kids the housework or cooking a meal please take it that’s what they are there for. You will soon find out who your true friends are that’s for sure and you might even get some support from those you least expected it from too. Keep us posted. Biggest hug. Margie xx