to Ad Lib
All I can say is, those that really care will come around to help, the selfish ones will drop away.. One of my children wanted to do the bury the head in the sand with " this is nobody else needs to know our business" but now she is accepting that its not something to run and hide from and hopefully she will now take on a different attitude to her own health who knows. But when each person has found out I have directed them to BCNA to have a read so that they can get a better understanding even sent some links to the site.
Take care of yourself and your family its time to be picky about whats best for you and your family. I have found in this short time just what help I need and will need and also what I need to keep doing for myself, these will probably change as I progress into the Journey as its not always so straight forward and there might be twists and turns and its not the same for everyone
All the best on your Journey this site is great for advise, venting and just reading through getting strength form others and ideas, I've read quiet a few and tried the ones I have been comfortable with.