Wow! @CatRM - Sorry to see you here - it is not the best club to join .... but we are all members! It is definitely the best place to be for up front honesty and assistance.
What town/city are you from? We may have members there to point you to resources that are available to you?
The humour gives us well needed laughs now & then .... feel free to add your own xx
All the best for your ongoing treatment. xx Make sure you take a trusted buddy with you to your Health meetings and record them for later use - it is easy to forget what goes on 'in the stress of the day.' xx
In the mean time - try & keep busy - do what you love doing whilst you can do it - it keeps both body & mind busy, which is a good thing. Mind you, with 4 girls to keep in order, that'll keep you busy!! There is a 'Young Women' group you may like to join and lots of our members have kids, so can help you with any concerns you may have there xx