Hi Janny, I think it takes some time to process we have cancer. Once it is found we are quickly into treatment and then often the treatment takes so much out of us. It's months down the track until we feel well enough to think hard about it.
I wanted to mention just in case you are not aware that banks have provision for people who suddenly have financial difficulty paying their mortgage. So well worth talking to your bank if you haven't already done so.
It's great news you don't need chemo. I am now taking tamoxifen and find it ok. Good luck with it all. Karen
