Hi @LJS
I too had lobular cancer after having a clear mammogram only 12 months prior - they call it the “ sneaky” cancer as it often doesn’t show up on mammograms.
You have come to the right place - everyone in this forum “ gets it” it a way people who haven’t had this diagnosis can’t.
There is also a wealth of info on the BCNA website .
I found the emotional toll of the diagnosis as challenging as the physical toll - I saw a psychologist specialising in cancer related distress for a couple of sessions and that helped.
Also if you listen to the Dr Charlotte Tottman podcasts on here - “What you don’t know until you do “ - they are very helpful - she is. Psychologist specialising in cancer related distress who herself got breast cancer.
Take care , avoid “ Dr Google” and feel free to post on here any time and you will find the advice and support a great asset.