Hi @JoeyLiz and welcome to the place no one wants to be. Still you are among friends and we make do. We have some laughs, some tears and discussions on everything in here. No question is stupid. There is always someone around to answer a query or offer support. I've only been on this journey a relatively short time too. Diagnosed in early June. I get full diagnosis next Thursday following surgery a couple of weeks ago. I'll be glad to know what I'm actually facing as it's been a long almost 4 months to get to this point. I'm also a lot older than you at 53years but I'm raising 3 of my grand babies who are 19/12, 2.5yrs and 3 yrs and 3 months old. Very close in age to each other and full of energy from morning until night. I'm glad to see you are getting eggs frozen and thinking of your future. There is also a young women's group on here which you may like to join. I'm sure there are lots of them with young children too and facing similar batyles to yours. I'm glad you found us. Will be good getting to know you on your journey. Take care xx Lesley