Thanks for sharing your story @unicorn3 - it is very similar! The kids have been just amazing - my 7yr old son is incredibly matter of fact (and VERY open about his mum having cancer); my daughter is much more introspect about it. We've been very open with them about what is happening and what to expect - we practised sideways hugs before I went in for surgery and they both check-in about my "sore arm" before coming in for a cuddle.
My son was rather disappointed when I came back from my chemo infusion with all my hair still - he thought it would fall out immediately. He's hanging out for it to fall out so he can shave my husband's head :smiley: There's no feeling sorry for yourself with the kids around - I really appreciate them keeping me grounded and out of my head :D !