Im a workaholic - if I dont, who will?

My kids were 11, 12 & 15 at diagnosis.  It wasn't easy emotionally for them at times but they amazed me with their ability to rise to the occasion and what they could do.  While they can still drive me crazy when they don't think beyond the immediate, I think they have grown so much in maturity and confidence compared to what could have been.  Check out income protection with your Super but depending on your job, you may find that working is not a problem for you.  If friends want to help, name some specifics - no point having a freezer full of meals if what you really need is for the kids to be taken to sport once a week.  More than anything - be honest with your kids and take it a step at a time.