I was recently diagnosed...

@Peacefuldove Welcome.  I was diagnosed last year on 5 December, had wide excision on 21 December and had to go back in for mastectomy on 8 January.  Our Christmas was a quiet one (the best sort) with my kids cooking the roast under supervision.  I think the key is to be with the people you love, to have support without too many expectations (from yourself or others) and to give yourself space to relax.