@Flips we are all masters of putting on that brave face !! So here is the perfect place to find what you need .
To be honest we need to listen to our bodies & get to know your boobs really well. I was unable to feel my lump !
i had a weird ,warmish sensation in my boob that led me to keep feeling it , thought I felt a lump , doc couldn't feel anything but sent me to have a mammogram to be on the safe side !! Low & behold they detect a lump but not where I thought !!
So in essence I was lucky , lucky to have it found early & be able to have it dealt with .
F**k cancer !!