Welcome to the site. The other ladies have given you great advice and yes ...we all know those frightening nights waiting for appointments and waiting on results. Yes...treatable and beatable. My niece ....so proud of her, and my inspiration to fight on...at age 30 found an enlarged lymph node...following surgery she was found to have 2 tiny her2+ cancers with 10 positive nodes. 14 years on...she is cancer free. Yes the treatment was tough, but worth it...and her babies are quite grown up now. Take care. Kath x