How do you tell people and what do you tell ?????

The first time around, BCV1, I told everybody everything. Straight away. It wasn't a good idea but once I started I couldn't stop. I worked in a public library and it all became a very public event.
BCV2 I only told people who I considered friendsf and only when I had direct contact with them for other, non BC reasons. No ringing, no facebook. If I wasn't talking to you about something else, you didn't get told about the cancer. That worked better for me.