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cactusk
2 years agoMember
Here we (I) go
Diagnosed ductal last week - lumpectomy tomorrow. feeling sad but relieved & nervous & a bit scared. Likely radio or hormone therapy after - we’ll see. reading these threads I know I’m not alone, ev...
cranky_granny
2 years agoMember
@cactusk enjoy Christmas and new year. I hope your treatment goes smoothly Chemo isn’t like it was years ago where one size fits all and things can be adjusted if needed.
As for the unhelpful friends I just changed the subject as best i could if my bodyguard wasn’t around. The one that got me the most after initial treatment was finished was oh i thought you were over all that cancer stuff. Some people are just clueless. I found my cancer really has sorted out the real friends. They’re the ones that said how can I help not come out with a pile of dribble.