@cactusk enjoy Christmas and new year. I hope your treatment goes smoothly Chemo isn’t like it was years ago where one size fits all and things can be adjusted if needed.
As for the unhelpful friends I just changed the subject as best i could if my bodyguard wasn’t around. The one that got me the most after initial treatment was finished was oh i thought you were over all that cancer stuff. Some people are just clueless. I found my cancer really has sorted out the real friends. They’re the ones that said how can I help not come out with a pile of dribble.